Plan, Seek, Become

Planning and organizing are incredibly important for your family law case and there is no substitute for it. Even if you have an experienced and dedicated attorney, you still must be personally involved with many aspects of your family law matter.

At the same time, you have to pay great attention to the personal relationships of people that matter. Personal growth and development also have to be tended to.

Personal Relationships

During difficult family law cases it is easy to become isolated, angry and lash out at the people who matter most.

You might also find others you care about may withdraw and push relationships away.

Now is the time to pay close attention to your personal relationships and even enhance the ones that matter most.

Personal Growth and Development

While personal growth and development are not usually the first thing that come to mind during a difficult family law case, it can be an advantageous time to reflect on the past and plan a course for the future.

Too often people wait until ‘after’ their family law case to decide to start a new career, relocate or build themselves up. Instead, it can sometimes be better to plan these before or during a family law case to ensure you are making legal choices that support a better you!

Not only is this the time to create a good foundation for your case, but also build the necessary strategy and tactics to reach your goals!

Here is some information to get you started:

  • What Will Be Your Divorce Story? - A good exercise for those going through, or considering, divorce is to think about what your divorce story will be when it is over. What do you hope to say about the divorce process and results? Some things to think about are: What have you accomplished during the divorce process?Have you maintained positive relationships with […]
  • How To Set Goals In Your Family Law Case - I’ve written previously about WHY goal setting in your family law case is important, this post is going to help you define HOW to set them. First understand that this process does not need to be complicated or time consuming! The process of thinking through important aspects of your case and identifying and prioritizing them […]
  • Setting Goals In Your Family Law Case — Why It Matters - I believe that identifying goals in your family law case and sharing them with legal professionals helping inyour case may lead to better outcomes. First, I am going to talk about why, then we’ll discuss in another post about how to actually set goals for a family law legal case. Here are some of the […]

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